Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Life Priorities

"The older I get the more I realize the value of privacy: of cultivating your circle and only letting certain people in. You can be open, honest, and real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at the table of your life."

Author unknown

Friday, February 13, 2015

Toddler Years

Amazing how fast children grow and how eager they are to learn. We are amazed how many words Sophie can say, sign, and understand. We are truly blessed; and for having found  such a loving nanny for Sophie in our own home.

The following quote reminds me how I would hold Sophie all day and night as a baby for the first 3 months on maternity leave.  I loved the feeling and would often remind myself to cherish this moment for one day she would be a toddler.

Whenever I held my newborn baby in my arms, I used to think that what I said and did to him could have an influence not only on him but on all whom he met, not only for a day or a month or a year, but for all eternity — a very challenging and exciting thought for a mother. ~Rose Kennedy
Everyday I am gratefully for our family.  Being a wife and mother are both blessings I never knew could exist. To have accomplished  and experienced everything  up until this point in life is no comparison to being in a loving relationship with each other and with our beautiful child.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Lil Miss Sophie B

“Making the decision to have a child - it is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. ”   Elizabeth Stone

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Sophie our new arrival

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Falling in Love (again) at Our Wedding

30 June 2013


There is something about lilies, and I appreciate them even more since our wedding.

I have always loved lilies in the house, and usually nine times out of ten if one would to visit there would be a crystal vase full of sweet smelling lilies at the front door. White lilies were the choice for my wedding bouquet, because of the elegance the flowers give off and the sweet smell.  Whenever I smell lilies in the house I will be reminded of our wedding day.

The lilies are amazing flowers for several reason. One, as mentioned, the flowers give off the most amazing scent. So amazing and strong that when Dale and I were outside having our wedding pictures taken out of nowhere the smallest bees were circling around the bouquet.

It was rather interesting and I did no mind at all. Not only do these flowers have a sweet smell to them, but they are just the symbol for a beautiful flower, with all the representation of what a flower is made to be. Speaking of all the parts lilies are not really high maintenance  at all if you give the flower some attention from the beginning. If not the flower can damage its own white petal from the pollen. So when the buds open the pollen should be pinched off, and most likely will be messy on the fingers.
One of the reasons, besides the smell and appearance, we continue to have lilies in the house was because if properly taken care of: water changes with stems cut at an angle each time, pollen removed, and just appreciated for the beauty lilies can last close to three weeks.  We are going on week three with the lilies that were in the wedding bouquet and alter vase. Which I may add was rather enjoyable creating! The alter vase was our crystal vase with two and half dozen stemmed lilies with at least three to four blooms on a stem, some buds closed others full huge blooms, left over red roses from making the boutonni√®res, and decorative curly tree twigs.  My bouquet was made with about thirty opened and closed white lilies , which the closed buds provided a balanced light green to the arrangement, and a few ferns from the backyard to hide the holder at the bottom. I was able to put a blue rhinestone brooch in the middle of the arrangement to remind me of my grandmother. The bouquet ended up being a lot bigger in size than I imagined, but given  all those great characteristics about lilies (and one I forgot to mention the price!) the final creation ended being perfect for our wedding. The rewarding part of creating the wedding bouquet at home, and having the flowers provide such symbolism to the wedding.

Once our wedding was done and the flowers sat in the floral sponge the lilies wilted a little, however when we go to our final destination all I had to do was bring them to the room and give them a few minutes of running water. The lilies perked right up  and were back to their old self again! The two arrangements just filled the room with scent.
Today they now sit in another crystal vase.  A vase purchased with last year’s Christmas funds given by my grandfather. I have this eccentric habit of not wanting to use birthday and Christmas money on bills. So what ends up happening it gets stashed away (like a little granny would do) and saved until something meaning can be bought to remember the individual who gave the gift.

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Soon to Be and Very Excited!

Summer 2013     2 weeks 5 days!
Autumn 2013     November!!!

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Pre-Parenting Practice

Every work day when I drive along the Trail I see them going about their business on the side of the road, and it  makes me smile. Cuddling looking they are. One particular day I noticed one of them a little more than usual and it stuck with me until I arrived home for lunch.  Then after that I thought nothing more of the woodchucks.

After pizza at our favourite place instead of going straight home we decided to enjoy the sun and beautiful weather so we took a drive by the river and surrounding neighborhoods that is nestled in the wooded areas. As always we enjoy each other's company and taking drives together.

Dale is very observant and as we made our way around a neighborhood turn he stopped and  pointed out a small creature in the road. We stopped the car, Dale got out, and then I came out once it was apparent we were not leaving the little guy. It was later discovered the little guy was only 4-5 weeks old. He either  left his nest or his mother dropped him in fear. After seeing two cats staring at us we decided to take him home and go from there. Dale picked him up and I drove home. Immediately, we found the little guy was a cuddler.

Visiting Nature's Nursery in undergrad school at BGSU the first call was made to them, and left a message.Once home I left to get a nursing bottle for water. Tried calling a few places, but no luck with help. Came home to Dale and Grover (Dale decided to name him) cuddling, and a box was made up for Grover.

We tried giving him water, and then I and Grover cuddled on the couch.  He was a little restless when placed back in the box for the night, and in the middle of the night we found him outside the box. So we put the box on the side, put the shirt  Dale used to pick him up the first time and he went right to sleep until morning....and he was still asleep when I took him to meet the lady at Nature's Nursery right off the trial to work. It was very sad, more so I think because of the state I am currently in for pre-parenting.  I called a few days later to check on him, and will again until he is introduced to other woodchucks.

Dale was amazing and knew right what to do.  It makes me happy to know Dale thinks and feels the same way about animals in need. As a young child I would always bring home abandoned or injured animals to take care of until released back. I am getting older because I tend to be more cautious with animals now, as where before I would have never hesitated to pick up a baby animal. Maybe it is the mother in me starting to mature, which is a good thing! However, Dale and I made a great team that day and we really did give Grover what he needed until professionals could take care of his properly.

I admire and respect Dale and he is going to make an amazing father!

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

30 June 2013

Once in awhile,
Right in the middle of an ordinary life,
Love gives us a fairy tale. ~Anonymous